Grief, Relief, and Belief: A Social Media Study on Late Identification of Neurodivergence

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Title: Grief, Relief, and Belief: A Social Media Study on Late Identification of Neurodivergence
Language: English
Authors: Ally Pax Arcari Mair (ORCID 0000-0002-8012-4219), Marina Gonzalez-Figueroa, Doug McConachie, Karen Goodall, Karri Gillespie-Smith (ORCID 0000-0002-3059-7632)
Source: Autism: The International Journal of Research and Practice. 2026 30(5):1344-1359.
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Peer Reviewed: Y
Page Count: 16
Publication Date: 2026
Document Type: Journal Articles
Reports - Research
Descriptors: Disability Identification, Self Concept, Grief, Psychological Patterns, Clinical Diagnosis, Adults, Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder, Autism Spectrum Disorders, Burnout
DOI: 10.1177/13623613261437916
ISSN: 1362-3613
1461-7005
Abstract: Little is known as to what drives feelings of grief and relief observed following the late identification of neurodivergence, and its significance as it relates to sense of self and self-understanding. As such, this study considers how grief is understood and experienced by neurodivergent individuals in the context of late identification. This study used qualitative content analysis to identify themes from 225 public social media posts discussing grief and relief in relation to a late identification. With a sample focused mainly on autism, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, and both co-occurring, four main themes, under an overarching theme and process, titled the Grief, Relief, and Belief Cycle, were identified: (1) The Life I Could Have Had; (2) Grieving for My Younger Self; (3) Feeling Gratitude; and (4) Post-Diagnosis Burnout. Overall, this study calls for a paradigm shift in how we understand and support neurodivergent individuals diagnosed in adulthood, seeing diagnosis as a first step, rather than a terminal component of a service, emphasising the need for comprehensive, individualised, wraparound care that addresses the emotional and practical aspects of their lives before, during, and beyond diagnosis.
Abstractor: As Provided
Entry Date: 2026
Accession Number: EJ1503285
Database: ERIC
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Abstract:Little is known as to what drives feelings of grief and relief observed following the late identification of neurodivergence, and its significance as it relates to sense of self and self-understanding. As such, this study considers how grief is understood and experienced by neurodivergent individuals in the context of late identification. This study used qualitative content analysis to identify themes from 225 public social media posts discussing grief and relief in relation to a late identification. With a sample focused mainly on autism, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, and both co-occurring, four main themes, under an overarching theme and process, titled the Grief, Relief, and Belief Cycle, were identified: (1) The Life I Could Have Had; (2) Grieving for My Younger Self; (3) Feeling Gratitude; and (4) Post-Diagnosis Burnout. Overall, this study calls for a paradigm shift in how we understand and support neurodivergent individuals diagnosed in adulthood, seeing diagnosis as a first step, rather than a terminal component of a service, emphasising the need for comprehensive, individualised, wraparound care that addresses the emotional and practical aspects of their lives before, during, and beyond diagnosis.
ISSN:1362-3613
1461-7005
DOI:10.1177/13623613261437916