The disturbing presence of the father: Paternal function and its initial developments.
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| Title: | The disturbing presence of the father: Paternal function and its initial developments. |
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| Authors: | Gonzalez-Torres, Miguel Angel (AUTHOR), Fernandez-Rivas, Aranzazu (AUTHOR) |
| Source: | International Forum of Psychoanalysis. Sep2019, Vol. 28 Issue 3, p140-146. 7p. |
| Subjects: | Mother-child relationship, Fathers, Childbirth, Mothers, Fatherhood |
| Abstract: | The birth of a child strongly influences the way in which we adults perceive life and, therefore, our inner world. This birth, or rather the expectation of it, initiates in the father a complex process, the paternal function. Despite being a common experience, there are many open questions regarding its development and its impact on the new father. We reflect here on paternal function and explore conscious and unconscious fantasies of the man facing new-found fatherhood. We propose that a kind of pre-Oedipal process has already begun during pregnancy. The new being's mere existence inside the womb generates an exclusionary force that sets the father's ambivalent feelings in motion. The overwhelming certainty of motherhood and the generation of the mother–fetus bubble develops in parallel with the uncertainty of the father, immersed in inner conflicts regarding what his relationship with the mother–child couple is and will be. He rapidly experiences how the child's presence makes him an excluded third party, always longing to fully occupy the place he once enjoyed beside the mother. The baby enters a world where father's strong ambivalence is already in place, facilitating and setting in motion a full development of the Oedipal process. Finally, some considerations are outlined on the potential influence of this complex ambivalence in large group reactions and the need to be remembered that humans have displayed since ancient historical times. [ABSTRACT FROM AUTHOR] |
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| Abstract: | The birth of a child strongly influences the way in which we adults perceive life and, therefore, our inner world. This birth, or rather the expectation of it, initiates in the father a complex process, the paternal function. Despite being a common experience, there are many open questions regarding its development and its impact on the new father. We reflect here on paternal function and explore conscious and unconscious fantasies of the man facing new-found fatherhood. We propose that a kind of pre-Oedipal process has already begun during pregnancy. The new being's mere existence inside the womb generates an exclusionary force that sets the father's ambivalent feelings in motion. The overwhelming certainty of motherhood and the generation of the mother–fetus bubble develops in parallel with the uncertainty of the father, immersed in inner conflicts regarding what his relationship with the mother–child couple is and will be. He rapidly experiences how the child's presence makes him an excluded third party, always longing to fully occupy the place he once enjoyed beside the mother. The baby enters a world where father's strong ambivalence is already in place, facilitating and setting in motion a full development of the Oedipal process. Finally, some considerations are outlined on the potential influence of this complex ambivalence in large group reactions and the need to be remembered that humans have displayed since ancient historical times. [ABSTRACT FROM AUTHOR] |
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| ISSN: | 0803706X |
| DOI: | 10.1080/0803706X.2018.1564364 |
